Wednesday, April 23, 2025

It’s a diagnosis of generational grief, disguised in silk and razor wire.

[We Don’t Live Here Anymore]

Tonight the ceiling drips metaphors. But I’ve started writing back.

We’re four rusted gears in a machine that feeds on its own friction.
A father, a mother, two children — not quite enemies, not quite allies — just variables in an endless equation of hurt.
Sometimes it’s A hurting B, then B hurting C.
But most nights, it’s all of us rerouting pain like old electricity, flickering through exposed wires.

No one hits anymore — not visibly — not with hands. But silence slaps. Indifference cuts. Anger slices. Love? It watches.
And the worst part? We’ve all learned the choreography.

It’s in the way Ma pours tea like a truce.
In the way Baba pretends the TV is louder than our silences.
In how my sibling and I pass sarcasm like heirlooms — delicate, sharpened.

We orbit each other like broken, wounded moons — bound by all scar tissue, guilt and gravity, pretending this is what families do. Collapsing.

Every meal is a ritual in denial — spoons clink like nervous ticks, and no one mentions what happened yesterday, or ten years ago.

Some nights, I think we take turns being the villain — not because we want to, but because the story demands it.

Love, in this house, is inherited like an old cough — familiar, unhealed, echoing down generations.

If A blames B, and B blames C, and C blames D, and D blames A — does the circle break, or just become tighter?

Each room could represent a different phase of pain.

The kitchen is where forgiveness is faked.

Monsoon here smells like old arguments — humid, unresolved.

The bedroom — secrets — the breath held between confessions — where whispers curdle into silence — where touch remembers what the mouth forgets — where silence nests in the folds of bedsheets — where nightmares wear familiar voices — where the past slips under the pillow, still warm — the only room where truth dares to undress — and still hides — inherited and unspoken — tucked in like lullabies no one dares to finish.

The hallway — avoidance — the stretch of silence between fights  — where eyes glance but never meet — where footsteps mean more than words — where voices trail off before they reach the door — where anger cools but never disappears — where guilt passes guilt in passing — where apologies are rehearsed but never spoken — the path between rooms, but never resolution — a liminal space, always waiting — the place where we forget, then remember, then pretend again.

Even the light switches know which wounds to avoid. We don’t live here anymore — we haunt. 

I remember once — Ma laughing so hard at a movie she snorted tea through her nose.
Baba didn’t laugh, but he smiled like it was a secret he hoped no one would notice.
That moment lives somewhere under all this static. I think.

I wonder if one day I’ll pour tea like a truce too.
If my children will flinch at the sound of spoons.
If trauma is something we pass down with the furniture.

Some arguments from 2007 still echo through these walls. But so do I.
The ghosts here don’t wear sheets — they wear old t-shirts and smell like guilt and shampoo.
I can't tell if I'm 12 again or just stuck.

Maybe one day I’ll write about healing.
Today, I needed to remember the architecture of hurt.

I didn’t write this for closure.
I wrote it because the house won’t stop echoing.

I write this not to exorcise it, but to remember which ghosts are mine.
Or.
There is no moral. Only memory.

- Oizys.

P.S. - This one wrote itself like a bruise forming beneath the skin. It’s not a story. It’s a map of echoes, grief, and the things we inherit even when we don’t want to. Some houses hold furniture. Others hold echoes. This one holds both.

NaPoWriMo 2025 (April 23rd): Aria at Dawn

From NaPoWriMo 2025 (Day Twenty-Three): Happy Wednesday, everyone, and happy twenty-third day of National/Global Poetry Writing Month.

Today, our featured participant is Elizabeth Boquet, who brings us a poem with a poem in it in response to Day Twenty-Two’s lessons-based prompt.

Our resource for the day is the Metropolitan Museum of Art. The museum’s online image collection is practically endless, and to call it varied would be an understatement. There’s over 2,000 images just of baseball cards! To say nothing of candelabra featuring what appears to be a scandalized swan, a processional sword belonging to the guardsman of a sixteenth-century German duke, and a couch that I would very much like to fall upon in a melodramatic swoon.

And last but not least, here’s today’s (optional) prompt. Humans might be the only species to compose music, but we’re quite famously not the only ones to make it. Birdsong is all around us – even in cities, there are sparrows chirping, starlings making a racket. And it’s hardly surprising that birdsong has inspired poets. Today, we’d like to challenge you to write your own poem that focuses on birdsong. Need examples? Try A.E. Stallings’ “Blackbird Etude,” or for an old-school throwback, Shelley’s “To a Skylark.”

Happy writing!

Aria at Dawn

The city’s throat clears—
a soft cough of engines, a clatter of gates—
but before it all, before coffee brews or dogs bark
the birds begin.

A warbler tries jazz
from the streetlamp’s cold halo—
riffs like a saxophone too caffeinated to sleep.
Somewhere, a pigeon gargles Gregorian chants
into the gutter.

The sparrows? Oh, they’re gossiping.
Treetop tabloids.
Who nested where.
Who left which feather behind.
Who dared peck at her reflection again.

Then, with the self-importance of a town crier
who’s late but refuses to admit it,
a chicken bursts in.

BA-GAWK!
Not so much a song
as a declaration of presence,
a feathered manifesto
delivered from the coop steps
like protest from behind a picket fence.

And from the power lines,
a crow cuts through it all.
Not melody,
but judgment.
A single, gravel-rough Caw
low, deliberate,
like punctuation
at the end of everyone else’s nonsense,
or a vote cast after long silence.

It silences even the breeze.

I sit with my chipped mug,
half-amused, half-awed.
This world sings in strange choruses—
some with harmony, some with heat.

Once, I thought morning belonged
to alarms and asphalt.
Now I know:

The overture is avian—
jazzed, clucked, and cawed
into light’s slow rise—
[not waiting for permission to begin.]

- Oizys.

Buy Me A Coffee
Forever grateful!